Invisible or Ogre? Take your pick

In this beautiful city I live in where beautiful women outnumbered men, I have often been reduced to feeling as if I am an ogre or simply invisible by the hetero single men. Isn't it a man's job to make a woman feel beautiful and a woman's job to make a man feel strong? Apparently my expectation is old-fashion and out of style - either that or my mirror really is magical (because the last I check I don't look so bad).